Tuesday, October 20

Relationship Mess

Going through the phase when my teenage hormones were at peak (though technically i'm not a teenager but still feel, i belong to this group) i often realized how much time i wasted on stuff which had no importance in my life if seen logically, but otherwise if i see it; i gained a lot from it..few good frnds, few good relations, and a lot more..And..

Never had any wrong intentions, but i often landed myself in trouble or my close ones..!! Cried, laughed and shouted..all i have now is some good and some bad memories ! There have been times when i took life seriously and times when i followed the "chalta hai" attitude...most of which i learned in college..

Never had set any boundaries for myself, after all i knew my parents were there for me to guide. And luckily i never crossed these. These last few years have brought me closer to my mom and dad...and sometimes i regret i share my problems with my my close buddies rather them, but if given a another thought.. the generation gap still prevails !! These things often drive me crazy.

To be pecise i had 3 serious crushes and a lot normal ones, some of which were betty cooper, vanessa hudgens, emma watson...! While going through the normal ones, it was fun...but while going through the serious ones it wasn't.

"There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel..."

There have been times when i declared, enough of this...no relationship mess, arrange is way to be !! And contradicting my own declaration recently went into a relationship mess.. :'( and still into it. My sis once said "If you ever want to be in relation with someone, the first thing is to check whether you too are compatible on long run.."; never had implemented this knowledge till few months back..but did in recent times. Still struggling through the whole concept...wish everything was as simple in movies, but i know it cant be..

Definitily its not the end of this post, but have nothing more to share as i am still jumbled in complicated relationship stuff..which doesn't seems to end in the nearby future..but still whenever it does i will share with you people..

therefore..i should say this post is yet
to be continued...

11 delusions (comments):

Americanising Desi on October 20, 2009 at 11:05 PM said...

:) relationships are just too hard to stay away from :)
will make u inhuman otherwise!

vAnDaNa sLaThIa on October 21, 2009 at 6:50 PM said...

emma watson,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,lol

Dhanya on October 22, 2009 at 5:22 PM said...

We humans keep contradicting ourselves every other day, don't we? :)

Aries on October 22, 2009 at 9:35 PM said...

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niharika on October 23, 2009 at 1:04 AM said...

God. all you ppl in love are scaring me off..!!!
temme the truth.. is it that tough..!! :(

Rahil on October 23, 2009 at 1:09 AM said...

@Americanising Desi
complicated isnt it !!


Atleast i regularly do that :(

Thanks buddy :)

No its not. Its just that we are big idiots and cant handle it properly.

- Sugar Cube - on October 24, 2009 at 5:56 PM said...

"Going through normal crushes was fun ..while going through the serious one it wasn't."
lol :)
Thats true.

Hmm waiting to read the continued part of this post.

Pesto Sauce on October 26, 2009 at 8:50 PM said...

Will wait for follow up post, though its good you have realised futility of all this

Sameera on October 27, 2009 at 9:40 PM said...

Can't comment really... ZERO experience...! I have always seen relationships as monstrous quicksand pits that drag you in and kill the fun in your life.. I better be wrong.. err..because 99.99% of the world cannot be wrong!

Love has to be beautiful! Everything that exists is beautiful. This too shall pass!

May you see the sunshine soon!

Rahil on November 2, 2009 at 5:05 PM said...

@Suagr Cube, @Pesto

Will be glad to share the continuation part if there is any ;)

Thanks for ur wishes :)

Rikita on February 7, 2010 at 11:06 PM said...

:)....lolz i cant comment....zero experirnce but ya if it helps i wud just lyk 2 say its b8r 2 b confused..really...dan having none 2 b confused abt :D

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